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Why You Should Be An Irritating 2-Year-Old

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I work with, and speak for, organizations that want their people to play a bigger game and produce unreasonable results. Because of this, I’m keenly interested in why people don’t do this. I mean, think about it. If you had the power to produce big results, audacious results, even unreasonable results, wouldn’t you do it?

Well, you do have the power. What’s more, you know you have the power. You don’t need me to tell you. You’ve been hearing it from sages, gurus, authors, and speakers for most of your life. So why aren’t you doing it? Why aren’t you aiming higher? Why are you settling for average results, mediocre results?

I’ve found that one of the biggest (although not the only) reasons people fail to produce unreasonable results is because they just don’t have a compelling enough reason. And the reason for this is very basic.

They stopped asking “Why?” too soon.

Motivational Speaker Bill Stainton

“Why? Why? Why? Why? Why?”

Have you ever had a two-year-old human in your life? If so, my condolences. (Yes, I know that every child is a precious gift from God. Technically, so are mosquitoes.) Two-year-old humans may be a blessing and joy, but they are also among nature’s most perfect irritants. The primary flaw of two-year-olds is that they have learned the word “why.” As in:

Irritating 2-year-old: “Why do cats purr?”

Normal human: “Because they’re happy.”

Irritating 2-year-old: “Why?”

Normal human: “Because they get to sleep whenever they want.”

Irritating 2-year-old: “Why?

Normal human: “Because they don’t have jobs.”

Irritating 2-year-old: “Why?”

Normal human: “Because all their needs are taken care of by humans like me.”

Irritating 2-year-old: “Why?”

Normal human: “Because if I don’t your mother will accuse me of not being a good provider.”

Irritating 2-year-old: “Why?”

Normal human: “BECAUSE SHE’S STILL ANGRY AT HER OWN FATHER FOR HIRING THE BUDGET CLOWN INSTEAD OF THE GOOD CLOWN FOR HER 10TH BIRTHDAY!”

Irritating 2-year-old: “Why?”

And on and on this little death spiral plays out.

So why on earth would I want you to emulate the irritating 2-year-old?

Motivational Speaker Bill StaintonBecause a chain of “whys,” irritating as it may be, has a way of getting to the core. Ask enough “whys” and you’ll start to find out what’s really important to you. For example:

You: “I want to produce a big, unreasonable result.”

Your irritating inner 2-year-old: “Why?”

You: “Because everybody says that’s what I should do.” [Note: This is where most people stop. Small wonder they fail to produce the result. They stopped asking “Why?” too soon.]

Irritating inner 2-year-old: “Why?”

You: “Because they believe in me.”

Irritating inner 2-year-old: “Why?”

You: “Because they see possibilities and potential in me that I sometimes forget are there.”

Irritating inner 2-year-old: “Why?”

You: “Because sometimes I get so wrapped up in what I’m doing that I forget to focus on why I’m doing it, which makes me realize why I really should produce a big, unreasonable result.”

Suddenly not-so-irritating inner 2-year-old: “Why?”

You: “Because if I do I can help thousands of other people live their passion and produce unreasonable results of their own!”

Now that’s a reason that will energize you, motivate you, and keep you on track! You just have to ask enough “Whys” to get there! (Please note the incredible self-restraint I exercised in not making a “word to the whys” pun.)

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For 15 years, Executive Producer and Hall of Fame speaker Bill Stainton, CSP led his team to more than 100 Emmy Awards and 10 straight years of #1 ratings.Today Bill helps leaders achieve those kinds of results--in THEIR world and with THEIR teams.
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